Ghost Recovery

She went quiet.
Here's what to send.

Upload the conversation. VYB diagnoses why she stopped responding and gives you the exact message to re-engage — specific to your conversation, not a generic template.

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What VYB does with a ghosted conversation

Diagnoses why she went quiet

Was the last message too long? Too eager? Did the conversation lose momentum? VYB reads the full thread and tells you what went wrong.

Ghost-risk assessment

Was this a soft ghost (busy, forgot) or a hard ghost (lost interest)? Knowing the difference determines the right move.

The exact re-engagement message

A specific message written from your conversation context. Not "hey, you forgot about me 😅" — something that actually has a chance.

Timing recommendation

When to send it. Too soon looks needy. Too late and the window closes. VYB tells you the right window.

Frequently asked questions

What is ghost recovery?

Ghost recovery is the process of re-engaging a match who has stopped responding. VYB reads your conversation, diagnoses why they went quiet, and generates a specific message to restart it without seeming desperate or needy.

Does the ghost recovery message actually work?

It significantly improves your odds. VYB doesn't send generic "hey, you still there?" messages — it crafts a context-specific re-engagement based on what was said before, which performs far better than a cold follow-up.

How long should I wait before trying to recover a ghost?

Generally 3–7 days. Sending a recovery message too soon looks needy; too late and the connection is cold. VYB gives you a timing recommendation alongside the message.

Is it ever too late to recover a ghost?

Sometimes yes — if the match has been silent for weeks, the odds drop significantly. VYB will tell you honestly when recovery is unlikely and what (if anything) is worth trying.

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